Manifestation - Making A Better Life
Getting what you want
I'm constantly struck by the number of men who think that they can achieve success at ejaculation control just simply by wishing that it will happen – and not by taking any action.
The truth of the matter is that anyone of us can manifest a better life, better outcome, a better sexual performance – whatever you want. The truth is that most of us don't bother to do so because we are either too lazy or because we don't actually know the techniques that would enable us to get what we want in life (hint: it's called manifestation).
Manifestation is not actually a mystery: it's one of the most ancient human gifts, it's been used by people for centuries, and it still continues to excite the interest of people who want to improve the quality of their life today.
So what does it essentially mean? First of all, more than anything, what it means is setting an objective that you can aspire to. Your objective needs to be clear, and in every detail it needs to express your most fervent desires, your heartfelt wishes, the things that means more to you than almost anything else.
When you think about the difference between having good, enjoyable sex, with complete ejaculation control, in a relationship that's loving and harmonious, compared to what so many people settle for: which is premature ejaculation, poor sex, the gratification that comes from a rapid ejaculation after penetration, with no consideration for female partner, it's hardly surprising that there are so many relationships in difficulties. Yet the solution is so simple.
In my experience, even when people try to manifest good relationships using the Law of Attraction, they rarely to take the time and trouble to make sure that their sexual partner is satisfied. Yet what's so puzzling about this is the fact that manifesting a harmonious and good quality sexual relationship is really quite easy.
And if you're in any doubt that this is a real principle governing human activity, then take a look at some of the history behind the Law of Attraction as described by this author.
As I've said, the first thing you have to do is have a very clear objective - what you're trying to achieve, which means picturing the relationship and the quality of the sexual relationship within it, in great detail.
It's no use being half-hearted about this, hoping that your wishes "might happen", or that perhaps they "could happen", or that if you wait long enough "something will develop". You absolutely have to want this as though nothing else mattered to you.
Indeed, experts on manifestation will tell you that one of the prime factors in whether you succeed or not at co-creation and manifestation miracles is the amount of emotional energy and effort that you invest in the process.
But there is more to it than that: BELIEF! You have to have a clear sense of belief in what you're doing – in other words, you actually have to believe that what you're doing is going to work.
When the Bible talks about faith, this is what it means – that you actually have no doubt that when you pray with complete certainty (and, I might add, intense desire and also a high level of expectation) then what you want will appear. That is the nature of faith.
Again, I fear many of us are conditioned to living a lukewarm life, or at least a lukewarm emotional life, in which getting what we want is something that happens comparatively rarely.
We generally don't have the passion, we often don't have the desire, and we often lack the belief that will set the seal on the universe's ability or willingness to manifest what we want.
So let me ask you right here, right now, just how badly do you want a relationship that is full of joy, with the most fulfilling sex you can imagine?
If you don't want that passionately, if you don't desire it with great passion and fervor, then you're not likely to be able to manifest it.
On the other hand, if that idea really rocks your boat, and you feel excited by the prospect, then you will most likely be very interested in the manifestation techniques that can get you what you want. Good for you! You can read about them here.